Moving on the #7 of my Top 10 List for Parents of Adult Kids ...
#7 - No Guilt!
Parents, do not make your adult children feel guilty about how much time they spend with you.
Guilt never works.
It almost always creates the opposite of the desired outcome.
Trying to induce guilt is a passive-aggressive way of communicating. It is childish. It is cynical.
It pushes your children away from you.
Don't do it. Ever.
That's all I have for now.